Solo Travelling

I wrote a lot about the things I loved about solo travelling. But there are downsides.

  • You don’t have someone to mind your stuff when you go to the toilet. So you gotta haul everything into the cubicle with you.

  • Sometimes when you get scared, you don’t have someone to turn to… like, sometimes I freak myself being in a big hotel room on my own. But I’m like, fuck it, embrace it, it’ll be ok.

  • You can’t just hog a table to go get stuff at buffet. You have to strategically leave something there like a jacket to show people that you’re still sitting there.

  • Can’t order a lot of food to try because you can’t finish it, so you won’t get to try a lot of different dishes.

  • It costs more to travel alone because you’re not splitting the costs of things like a hotel room. It’s gonna cost the same if you sleep alone or share the room with someone.

  • Sometimes you do wonder what the hell you’re doing alone, all across the world.

  • It can get a bit lonely, I did at times feel like striking up conversations because I was getting so bored of talking to myself.

  • You have to sit next to random people on flights

  • There is no one else to rely on, so you really have to rely on yourself or actually go ask people (which is an adventure in itself)

  • There’s no one else to share your joy with; or your reflections with. Which is why I wrote on my blog a lot. Also no one to share funny experiences with.

  • You’re limited in the things that you discover because when you’re travelling with other people, they have other interests which can potentially expand your worldview too.

  • You’re the only one navigating, there’s no one to rely on for navigation.

  • Australia goes to sleep when its afternoon in Europe, so it’s hard to communicate and share things in real time.

  • No one else to remember the trip with. I only have myself to remember the trip with.

  • You’re limited to selfies lol.

  • If you’re sick, you’re on your own. Like how I was in Dubai and Copenhagen.

Still can’t believe I went to Scandinavia. It feels like such a long time ago now. I’d do it all over 1000%. But I think I would actually instead go for longer and actually buy one of those DJI cameras so I could take more videos of the places I went to rather than just rely on myself for taking photos. I have a total of 1246 photos from Scandinavia, but I felt like I didn’t take enough. I have also looked at these photos again and again, they’re my favourite. I think I’ll print them out soon so I can have a physical memory. It really is my favourite memory and truly a highlight of my life. I feel so lucky to have gone.

I don’t miss this part tho